Monday, September 16, 2013

Happiness from yourself ;)

There's such thing on my mind. Often, we feel sad because someone has let us down. Someone didn't live up our expectations and so we were disappointed. It can be as petit as expecting someone to wish u on your birthday or as serious as expecting someone to tolerate u despite ur bad temper simply because "he/she loves u" or, "supposed to love you". Just some examples anyway lol. And when they didn't do as you wish, you feel sad because they disappointed you.

And you feel like shit.

When we have expectations on someone, meaning that we are relying that someone for our happiness. And how nice it'd be, if we could cut down our expectations on the others and everything people do would become a...surprise. Then everything would turn out like "AWWW how come he/she rmb my birthday?! or AWWW how come he never get angry because I came late..." Then we would appreciate people's effort, regardless of big ones or small ones. 

Take some time today to appreciate someone who does something you take for granted.

最关键一点就是不要把自己的快乐寄托在别人身上,减少对别人的期望,至少可以减低不快乐的机率。

快乐其实很简单?:)




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